Currently, we do SPF checks for all connections.
However, authenticated users will be sending email from different
locations, applying SPF to them will result in false positives.
So this patch makes chasquid skip SPF checking if the connection is
authenticated.
This patch adds a test for delivery status notifications and null address
deliveries, that check that chasquid can both receive and send DSNs.
To do this, we extend the mail_diff utility to support wildcards in the
comparisons, to skip over variable parts of the messages (like dates).
