The queue currently only considers failed recipients when deciding
whether to send a DSN or not. This is a bug, as recipients that time out
are not taken into account.
This patch fixes that issue by including both failed and pending
recipients in the DSN.
It also adds more comprehensive tests for this case, both in the queue
and in the dsn generation code.
Today, we pick the domain used to send the DSN from based on what we
presented to the client at EHLO time, which itself may be based on the
TLS negotiation (which is not necessarily trusted).
This is complex, not necessarily correct, and involves passing the
domain around through the queue and persisting it in the items.
So this patch simplifies that handling by always using the main domain
as specified by the configuration.
When we permanently failed to deliver to one or more recipients, send delivery
status notifications back to the sender.
To do this, we need to extend a couple of internal structures, to keep track
of the original destinations (so we can include them in the message, for
reference), and the hostname we're identifying ourselves as (this is arguable
but we're going with it for now, may change later).
