This patch makes the SMTP courier distinguish permanent errors, so the queue
can decide whether to retry or not.
It's based on the SMTP replies: 5xy is considerent permanent, anything else is
transient (including errors other than protocol issues).
This patch adds SMTPUTF8 to the SMTP courier.
It introduces a new internal/smtp package that extends Go's net/smtp with
SMTPUTF8 (in a very narrow way, not for general use), and then makes the
courier use it.
Also use an IDNA-safe version when saying hello, otherwise servers could
complain if the hostname is not ASCII, and at that stage we don't know if they
support it or not.
