This patch adds SMTPUTF8 to the SMTP courier.
It introduces a new internal/smtp package that extends Go's net/smtp with
SMTPUTF8 (in a very narrow way, not for general use), and then makes the
courier use it.
Also use an IDNA-safe version when saying hello, otherwise servers could
complain if the hostname is not ASCII, and at that stage we don't know if they
support it or not.
