test: Add a test for DSN and null address deliveries

This patch adds a test for delivery status notifications and null address
deliveries, that check that chasquid can both receive and send DSNs.

To do this, we extend the mail_diff utility to support wildcards in the
comparisons, to skip over variable parts of the messages (like dates).

test/t-05-null_address/hosts

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+testserver localhost